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Zoe Tay, 48, may require visual aids for her farsightedness now, but the Queen of Caldecott Hill has no fear of being reminded of her age. “I’ve never kept that a secret — everyone knows how old I am!” she said.
But back when she started suffering from presbyopia three or four years ago, she found it hard to accept it and couldn’t bring herself to seek help.
“When we dined out at restaurants, the lighting was dim and I couldn’t read the menus clearly,” she said. “But I was too embarrassed to ask the people seated next to me (to read the menus to me), so in the end I called the waiter over to list out the daily specials!”
The actress is now the ambassador for 1-Day Acuvue Moist Multifocal contact lenses, intended for farsighted folks above 40. “Presbyopia is a problem everyone will encounter sooner or later, so no one has to feel uncomfortable discussing it,” she said.
Zoe described how she had to start reading her screenplays at arm’s length and squinting at her smartphone screen; she later requested screenplays printed in a larger font size and adjusted the text size on her phone.
“One actor colleague has severe presbyopia and once he slammed his screenplay on the floor before he could read what was printed on it,” she recounted, though she declined to say who it was. “At that time I laughed at him and suggested he place his screenplay in the next room, but I hadn’t expected it would be my turn someday.”
After consulting an optometrist, Zoe got fitted this year with the contact lenses she’s endorsing. But this is the first time she’s wearing them again after 30 years — she had gone for Lasik soon after her acting debut, and the person who’d encouraged her to was former actor Xie Shao Guang.
“Shao Guang noticed that when we read our lines, I wasn’t looking at him in the eye,” Zoe said. “I was worried this would affect my career — eyes are vital to an actor — so I went for the operation.”
She developed shortsightedness in secondary school when she got into the habit of reading while lying down. And now she’s catching her own son reading while lying on his belly — 8-year-old Ashton was recently diagnosed with myopia.
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Zoe with the host of the press conference, CLASS 95FM DJ Jean Danker
Though Zoe reminds her three boys to look after their eyes and takes them to the optometrist every six months, her eldest, 11-year-old Brayden, now wears glasses.
“Maybe it’s because of computers,” she said. “And perhaps Ashton thinks Brayden looks cool with glasses, so he’s careless about protecting his vision.”
When she’s not at home with her sons, supervising the older two in their schoolwork and playing with the youngest, 5-year-old Nathan, Zoe films one or two drama series every year. Her latest role was in the year-end blockbuster The Dream Makers 2, for which she’s been nominated for Best Actress at the upcoming Star Awards.
And Zoe has said she would travel with her mother whenever she can, so she wouldn’t have any regrets. “I couldn’t go abroad with my father when he was still around,” she said.
About a month ago, the actress posted on Instagram an old photo of her and her parents in 1998, along with an emotional caption. “I came across photos of my father posted online by friends and family, and it reminded me of him,” Zoe said. Her father passed away about 18 years ago.
“I was at my busiest then, and I really miss him now.”
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This story first appeared on toggle.sg/ch
Story by Goh Li Xin